2005 Vigil

 

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Hillary Rodham Clinton

 

Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton (Dem-NY) has been a supporter of child and adolescent health legislation for many years.  As a member of the Senate Health Committee, she added eating disorder language to the 2003 Improved Nutrition and Physical Activity (IMPACT) Act.  She cosponsored the Paul Wellstone Mental Health Equitable Treatment Act and testified for the need for insurance parity for those suffering from mental health disorders. 

 

At a Congressional briefing hosted by the Eating Disorders Coalition in 2001, Senator Clinton stated, “I hope we are successful at persuading insurance companies to provide the kind of treatment that is needed, in raising awareness through education and outreach, in getting more research and treatment dollars in general so that this disease which strikes so many vibrant and intelligent young people will be seen for what it is - something that we have to invest some time and money and our mental and emotional resources trying to combat.

In 2002, the Eating Disorders Coalition honored Senator Clinton with their Policy Award for her devotion to work in this field

 

Senator Clinton is not able to attend the vigil in person, but will recording a message for us to play.

 

Kim Cole-Stitt

 

Kim Cole-Stitt is a product of a bi-racial marriage and is founder of LoveMyBody, a non-profit organization that promotes awareness and education in hopes of combating and preventing eating disorders, obesity and negative body image within the minority and multi-racial communities. She is an activist and a spokesperson within the eating disorder industry.

 

At the age of 16, after seeing a movie about a young women suffering with an eating disorder on television, thinking that she was “stronger and smarter” than the person who had bulimia in the movie, she engaged in her first binging and purging episode.  At that time, she had no idea that her illness would control and consume her throughout the next 13 ½ years.  Initially, the disease Kim suffered from was embarrassing so she told no one and suffered with her eating disorder in private.  Seven years after her first purge, Kim began seeking help from therapists and informed one of her parents and a few select “friends”.  With the lack of knowledge, information and awareness of the disease in the medical and public community, it was difficult to find someone who could help, or knew how to help.  In addition, it was also increasingly difficult for Kim to seek help because of personal identity and self worth issues and racial identification issues related around eating disorders.  After Kim finally admitted and realized she needed help, she realized that in the minority community, an eating disorder was considered to be a “white disease”.  Due to the embarrassment of the disease and not wanting to admit to having an illness that was defined by a person’s “color”, her recovery was overpowered by her fear of personal and social un-acceptance.

 

It wasn’t until 2002, when Kim encountered a friend that constantly confronted her about her eating disorder and helped her through her recovery.  He helped her realize her self-worth and never stopped asking how she was doing with her illness.  Eventually, she was able to surrender her illness totally to Jesus.  On November 4, 2003, Kim had her last episode.  She celebrates her recovery the 4th of every month, and focuses on nurturing, loving and respecting herself and her body.

 

Joy Kasmarcik

 

Joy Kasmarcik is a resident of the upstate NY area.  She is a wife, mother and a grandmother.  She and her family are avid outdoors people and enjoy spending as much time as they can fishing, hiking and camping.  Their family van is always packed and ready to go so they may explore previously undiscovered (at least by them) areas of their home state.  Cold weather is not a deterrent and ice fishing is always a possibility.  When she isn't out enjoying the woods of NY she can be found on one of the local golf courses.

 

 

 
She is also recovered from Binge Eating Disorder (BED). Joy is very active in helping people find their voices.  She herself first found hers in the online world of recovery support.  It was the first place she had felt safe enough to reveal she had a problem. She joined the Something Fishy for Eating Disorders Remember It Hurts Community Bulletin Board & Community in 1998.

 

Joy has gone on to help others by volunteering as one of their moderators. She currently volunteers as a moderator for 4 of their online support forums.

 

Julia Patton

 

Julia Patton was diagnosed with severe anorexia at age seventeen. By the end of her senior year

in high school, her illness had progressed so far that she ended up in the emergency room at a local hospital and the  doctors did not know if she would survive through the night.  Julia's parents, desperate to save their daughter, made a decision to send her to Remuda Ranch for intensive impatient treatment.  Although Julia continued to fight recovery at Remuda, her stay there marked a turning point in her life.  The treatment at Remuda, which emphasized God's love and care was significantly different; there she was able to gain some of the tools necessary for recovery.  Though too ill for physical activity, Julia was encouraged to work toward wellness in order to pursue her true passion...dance.  As her health and strength slowly improved and Julia was gradually allowed to dance again, she felt inspired to take her dance to a new level.

 

Julia started a worship dance team at her church, and also began performing inspirational dance works for other local churches.  She enrolled at Ball State University where she studied nutrition and dance and performed with the University Dance Company.  She has choreographed, taught, and performed many pieces for dance shows and musical plays. Julia is currently entertaining people daily as a performer at Walt Disney

World in Orlando, Florida.

 

At the Candlelight Vigil, Julia will perform a dance she created that depicts her journey with anorexia.  It is set to a poem she wrote throughout her recovery about her thoughts, feelings, and experiences. She wishes to share strength and hope with those who struggle with eating disorders.    

 

 

Jenni Schaefer

 

In dance class, at the age of only four years old, Jenni Schaefer thought she was fat.

 

Jenni Schaefer knows eating disorders. Schaefer knows how far down an eating disorder can take someone, but she also knows how to find freedom.

 

Based on the unique therapeutic technique by psychotherapist and author (Embracing Fear), Thom Rutledge, Jenni treated her eating disorder as a relationship rather than an illness. Naming her anorexia/bulimia Ed – an acronym for “eating disorder,” Jenni learned to distinguish her thoughts from “Ed’s thoughts,” and eventually got rid of “him.”

 

Following years of therapy, Jenni wrote a book about her experience, Life Without Ed: How One Woman Declared Independence from Her Eating Disorder and How You Can Too (McGraw-Hill). She also has a story included in the book Chicken Soup for the Recovering Soul (HCI Books). Jenni is gaining a national reputation as an inspirational speaker and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Cosmogirl, Publisher’s Weekly, and Woman’s World.

Jenni is also a singer/songwriter --- using music throughout her work to help others. She often sings when she speaks to an audience. Jenni is also one of a kind by the fact that she actually incorporates humor into her work. Despite the fact that eating disorders are such a serious subject, she finds that humor adds a fresh perspective and provides a hopeful light. And today that is what Jenni Schaefer is all about – hope.

 

 

Mary Tyler S.

 

Mary Tyler is currently an 8th grader at Blessed Sacrament Catholic School in Alexandria, VA.  She has a healthy body image, having grown up watching her older sister suffer from severe anorexia nervosa and go through hospitalizations and treatment. She has been singing since she could talk, and hopes to become a professional singer in the future.

While she has no professional voice training, her family will tell you that she spends most of her waking hours singing some type of song...to the annoyance of her younger brother!  She is also currently starring as the "Cheshire Cat" in her school play of Alice in Wonderland. 

 

 

Michele Terry

 

Michele Terry is a mother, daughter, wife, sister and friend.  She journeyed through 15 years of various eating disorders and has been “free” for 11 years.  Hers years of struggle and a few people she met along the way have inspired her to reach out, step out and connect with others facings similar struggles. She has learned that isolation promotes desperation and connection promotes healing.  Without judgment, she listens to others’ stories and shares her own.

 

After years of volunteering her time, she had the opportunity to develop a part time program and Clinton County Health and Wellness was born.  The program’s primary focus in on eating disorders and body image issues.  It promotes education and Awareness and nurturing the "whole self”.  Michele offers a safe place for people to seek resources, support, and an open heart and listening ear.  “I continue to be in awe and grateful for the amazing, soulful, people I've met along this walk."

 

In addition to CCH&W, Michele has developed a fund to help women and families move forward by providing financial assistance for simple needs that can impede progress and growth called "The Beyond Today Fund".  Her five children are her source of boundless inspiration and her greatest teachers.

 

Michele’s 17 year old son Christopher will be presenting with her.

 

 

 



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